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Obituary of Dorothy Ruth Bohl
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It is with deep sadness, I share the news that my mother, Dorothy Z. Bohl (Dot), passed away on
September 12th, 2021 at age 93 after a diagnosis of metastatic breast cancer. While a few
paragraphs cannot distill a lifetime of love, my mother is worthy of great praise for a life welllived.
Mom was born on May 18, 1928, in NYC, and she was the second child of loving parents
Frederick and Ruth Zierick. Mom’s father, Fred, founded a metal stamping manufacturing
company, Zierick Manufacturing, and her mother, Ruth, was a homemaker. Childhood
hometowns included New York City and Yonkers, New York, and Fort Lauderdale, Florida.
Mom attended Hood College in Frederick, Maryland. After receiving her Master’s degree in
education from Columbia University, Mom taught at a one-room schoolhouse in New Castle,
NY, and 3rd grade in Hawthorne, NY. During a YMCA trip to Europe in 1953, Mom met the love
of her life, a handsome television director from Appleton, Wisconsin, named Donald Arthur
Bohl, who worked in Manhattan. Dad’s show-biz friends attempted to convince him that he was
not compatible with a school teacher. Although they did break up for a short time, Mom sent
Dad a letter and a booklet of train tickets to visit her in the suburbs, and the rest is history. The
couple wed in Bronxville, NY, on April 23, 1954, and thereafter, embraced the couple’s moniker
“Dot and Don.” Three daughters followed-Victoria (Vicki), Beth, and me (Amy). When Dad
exited show business in 1966, our family moved to Fort Lauderdale, Florida, where Mom and
Dad owned an art gallery and later, a travel business that took tours to Israel. Mom and Dad
gave us the childhood gift of spending winters in Florida and summers on a lake in Putnam
Valley, NY. There, we enjoyed water skiing and canoeing, romping through the woods, and
countless adventures with cousins. Mom and Dad loved to entertain family and friends with
delightful picnics and dinners on their wrap-around porch overlooking the lake. Tragedy
disrupted the idyllic setting in July of 1972 when Vicki was killed instantly at the age of 17, as a
young man driving a motorboat struck her canoe while she and her boyfriend were taking a
moonlit ride. Although devastated by their loss, I remember how my parents invited the 13-
year-old boy and his parents over to our house the morning of Vicki’s funeral. There in our
living room, they shared the love of Jesus with this family and expressed their forgiveness to
the boy for taking their beloved Vicki. I remember Mom stating she did not want this young
man’s life destroyed by one horrific accident. I recall Mom saying the loss of Vicki strengthened
her marriage to Dad and her faith in her savior, Jesus Christ. My parent’s pastor boldly stated to
Mom and Dad that “God does not make mistakes,” and this was the motto Mom clung to as she
refused to live with bitterness or regret.
As I reflect on my mother’s life, I find most remarkable her forgiving heart, gratefulness, and
service to others. Mom’s special gift was hospitality. From small gatherings to large affairs,
Mom loved to host and entertain. According to Dad, Mom made the best pot roast known to
man. Dad, Beth, and I reaped the benefit of Mom’s nightly home-cooked meals. Mom always
made sure to include friends at Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners who were without family. It
was not a holiday unless we had a full table. Mom’s other gift was generosity. Mom was a
humble woman who loved to give more than receive. Mom delighted in giving faithfully to her
church and numerous charities and ministries. Giving to others was Mom’s great joy.
Mom was passionate about her job as a wife, mother, grandmother, and homemaker. Seeing
Mom so tenderly care for my grandmother in her declining years was a wondrous sight to
behold. During my father’s prolonged battle with congestive heart failure, Mom’s devoted,
loving care was beauty in action. My parent’s enduring 55-year marriage was a love affair. Dad
was her love of a lifetime. After my father’s passing, Mom, at age 85, made a courageous move
from Charlotte, NC, to Madison, MS, to be near me, my husband David, and her three
grandchildren. I recall being struck by Mom’s adventurous spirit and her joy at making new
friends. We were so blessed to have Mom a few minutes away and have those wonderful years
as part of our daily lives. Even when my family moved to Chattanooga a few years ago for
David’s work and left Mom and Beth behind in Mississippi, Mom cheered us on. Mom
encouraged us that the move was best for our family, she never complained and happily
savored our visits, and she faithfully wrote to all of us.
No tribute would be complete without mentioning Mom’s love language was mail, as she loved
to send and receive it. Mom made elaborate, handmade birthday and every occasion cards for
loved ones. Mom skillfully maintained her friendships through letters, reaching out to friends
from her past residences in New York, Florida, Israel, and North Carolina. To all who
corresponded with Mom in her final months of hospice care through cards, letters, and phone
calls, you brought her great joy, and I thank you!
I also owe a huge debt of gratitude to the incredible staff at St. Catherine’s Nursing Home and
the hospice workers who lovingly cared for Mom in her final months. Mom lost the ability to
form sentences and was limited to uttering a word or two in her last month. I was privileged to
hear one last whisper of “love you” in her final days. I praise God that I had the gift of an
amazing mother who loved Beth and me so well, and she was an extraordinary mother-in-law
and grandmother too. Mom was a class act from start to finish. Mom provided an incredible
example of selfless love, covenant marriage, and service to others as she lived out her faith
daily.
While graced with a gentle demeanor, petite stature, and a quiet spirit, Mom possessed an
inner strength that was awe-inspiring. Mom was a prayer warrior who loved Jesus with all her
heart. Mom’s constant prayer was for all her family and friends to know Jesus Christ as Lord
and Savior. When my father passed, Mom wrote, “For all of us who live on, we indeed sorrow
and shed many tears when a loved one dies. However, for so many of us who believe that Jesus
died to save us and give us eternal life in Heaven, we can rejoice that our loved one is in Heaven
and is now free of pain and suffering.” Mom, we rejoice with you!
With a grateful heart,
Amy
Dorothy was preceded in death by her father, Frederick Raymond Zierick, her mother, Ruth
Otilay Zierick, her brother Russell Frederick Zierick (Ann), her husband Donald Arthur Bohl, and
daughter Victoria Mae Bohl. Dorothy is survived by daughters Beth Ann Bohl of Madison, MS,
and Amy Ruth Fowler (David) of Lookout Mountain, TN. Dorothy also leaves behind three loving
grandchildren, Erin Davis Hatcliff (Griffin), of Lookout Mountain, TN, Kirsten Clark Fowler of
Charlotte, NC, and David Tate Fowler of Birmingham, AL.
A service to honor the life of Dorothy Z. Bohl will be held at Highlands Presbyterian Church Thursday September 23, 2021 at 2:00 PM with visitation preceding the service at 1:15PM. The family requests in lieu of flowers to please consider a gift in Dorothy’s memory to Sacred Road Ministries (https://sacredroadministries.org/) a ministry that shares the love of Christ on the Yakama Nation Reservation in Washington State.
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September
Visitation
1:15 pm - 2:00 pm
Thursday, September 23, 2021
Highlands Presbyterian Church
1160 Highland Colony Parkway
Madison, Mississippi, United States
601-853-0636
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Thursday
23
September
Service
2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Thursday, September 23, 2021
Highlands Presbyterian Church
1160 Highland Colony Parkway
Madison, Mississippi, United States
601-853-0636
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